Sunday, June 18, 2006

Happy Father's Day

Things I learned from my Dad.

  • How to fish.
  • How to keep a promise.
  • To show up at work every day without fail, and never bring up to your family that you do.
  • If you are hired or volunteer to do a job, do that job to the very best of your ability.
  • Help your friends and relatives, even when they won't ask for it when they need it.
  • Bernoulli's Principle .
  • How to keep score at the ballgame.
  • That dragging your kids to see things that , at the time, they didn't think were "cool" will give them a better appreciation for those things later in life.
  • Yes your kid screwed up. Be mad but don't kill him.
  • When he turns 21, go have a drink with him. And then keep your mouth shut when the kid mentions that he knows of this great bar with specialty beer.
  • How to cook outdoors.
  • An appreciation for nature, both camping in it, and just looking at it.
  • Men volunteer.
  • They also will help you move.
  • Routine car maintenance and lawn care are a part of the package.
  • If your son is too young/old for Boy Scouts, you can still help out.
  • Find a woman you love who loves you back, marry her, and stay married.
  • Shave on the weekends.
  • To appreciate the best qualities in something; whether lumber, cities, or people.
  • Talk to your children like people, not children.
  • Patience, patience, patience.
  • Tell the kids what you learned from your dad.
  • How to joke around without being offensive.
  • The art of compromising.
  • How to have a discussion without it becoming an argument.
  • How to be a Father.

This list gets longer every year. It just takes some lessons longer to realize themselves.

Thanks for everything Dad. I never tell you enough or nearly as often as I should. Thank you.

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